The Relationship Expert Reveals (Dating & Relationship Tips!)

A REAL MAN (The Male Expert) says "Things women should know about dating in general." Secrets About Men

These are cold hard facts that real men want you to know.
1. Nice body does not equal nice person!
2. We don't want you to get breast implants because we look at a woman with them. We hate when you wear a bra size larger than your bust - This does nothing for your boobs. Wear the correct bra size and then you will see why you don't need implants. Many women tend to wear oversized bras and not even realize they are doing it. Get your correct size and you'll be surprised with the results.
3. If we had our choice, we would rather you not wear makeup.
4. We prefer natural beauty over plastic surgery made women any day.
5. We would enjoy our woman dressing sexy & classy but not slutty.
6. Our goal is to never let your self-esteem drop and always raise the bar higher for you.
7. The reason why we don't say it first is because we were not programmed while young to say it at all. Many of us are not accustomed to saying it at all but that doesn't mean we don't love you if we don't say it first.
8. If you are not racist, but you're dating someone who is racist. Then you are just being a hypocrite. So if you continue to think you can change that person's views then you are wrong. Racist people are all lonely and selfish. Their frustrations
start within their own culture and then they blame other race for their problems.
9. We dislike women who are superficial - POINT BLANK!
10. You are more likely to fall victim of domestic violence if you allow yourself to be superficial or into some fantasy. Fantasizing about what you think your mate should look like and criticizing every guy for being too nice will likely ruin
your chances of finding true love. Even if you are not looking for true love; you must tell yourself you are looking for something that's not going to bore you.
11.I believe that marriages, relationships end because of consistent boredom and then the financial problems comes next. Women and men tend to gather things from reality TV shows that are falsely representations of how relationships are to be.
Infidelity has grown to be an acceptance as we see this all the time on TV shows, movies, and in the news. The saying "that every man or woman cheats" is not true but who has met someone that will admit to this.
12. Realize that there is genuine reason we don't have kids yet. Maybe its because we are careful and have goals before kids.
13. We really do not want to be called "MY BABY'S DADDY" at any point in our life.
14. If you tell a man you are pregnant and you follow up by saying "You think it is by him. You have psychologically reversed the way he thought of you. Because is it his baby or the other guy you cheated with?? For the rest of his life, this will
stick with him...This can also make him run away from fathering the child. If we ask for a blood test, this will further let you know of what we think of you. Maybe your character is questionable.
15. If you are only with us for a one night stand, tell us!! Don't make us think we are getting a great girl and a potential relationship. We will only think the worst of you.
16. You say we're together but your myspace & facebook accounts status says "SINGLE". Periodically, depending on how you feel that day...Your status goes from In a Relationship back to Single.
17. 65% of other women pursue men when they know they are taken.
18. We do not fantasize of you and another woman. We fantasize about sex positions & other sexual things! <---NEVER COULD HAVE GUESSED THAT ONE!! 19. Single men masturbate 5-7 times a week. Committed men masturbate 1-2 times per week. Married Men masturbate 0-0.5 times a week. And it may seem disgusting but it helps with many different things at the end of the day. For a man to say to another man that he has been cheated on before yet he has not cheated himself would not gratify manhood so I believe this is why its becoming accepted. Both men and women psychologically will keep these things to themselves and therefore causing an unwanted acceptance in reality for infidelity. This is a mystery due to the fact that no one will ever know unless they have been caught therefore we ask how do you prevent your lover from cheating?

There is not an answer to this is because many men & women will still cheat if they're like that....but maybe I can help you understand what leads to a lover cheating...and these things apply to both men and women.......

1. Know what is real and what's fake. If you can distinguish between what's real and what's not real then you are in the right direction.
2.Know your own status and do not let it bother you that you too are not perfect.
3. If you feel that you need attention all the time, it may be in your best interest to not even think about serious relationships until you address that selfishness you have with yourself of needing attention 24/7.
4. If you can not keep your own self company then you are more likely to cheat then others that can entertain themselves. So What does that say for you?? This means you are lacking personality, character, a general hobby and this is such a huge issue
if you do not grow out of that stage.
5. Also drinking and smoking is not considered as entertaining yourself. Try reading a book, writing a journal, or spend more time educating yourself about relationships because obviously this is what you are here for.
6. Going out clubbing or bar hopping constantly is not the answer if you are looking for a real relationship. It is okay from time to time but you have to follow the rules with that because that can be dangerous and addicting.
7. Never lose yourself and always stand for something or you will fall for anything. Take pride in yourself as a person and if you see that your lover seems disinterested in you all the time then it probably means boredom first. Figure out why they are bored with you. Maybe you mix things up a bit in bed. Keep it a surprise. You don't want to be predictable or else that is a sure sign of failure (a predictable partner).
8. Remember this...If we have friends over all the time and we hang out with them all the time. (they're all single) Chances are when I'm out with them, then I'm acting single too. Too many single friends always equals trouble!!
9. Make sacrifices for the good of the relationship. Like if you too are low on funds when the birthday came around. Inform each other that it is okay if you want to get my birthday gift when you get paid. Being able to do this will make your
relationship last even longer and they will have to appreciate that.
10. If your lover knows all of your past, then they will only use it against you down the road. Do not give out every single detail if it was bad and sometimes its better you just erase those horrible things from your memory because they will affect who you are as a person and as a lover.

So...I want to give my final thoughts. A lot of people confuse drama, infatuation and fear with love, passion, and commitment and it's not the same thing.


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